Self-care
In this section, you’ll find practical ways to look after your mental health, allowing you to choose what works best for you. Whether you’re just starting to explore self-care or looking for new ideas, this guide is here to help.
What is self-care?
Self-care is about the things we can do to look after our own mental health. Young people told us that when they are struggling they are usually told to see a professional. They don’t often get much advice about how they could help themselves.
How did we develop these resources?
This self-care section was developed by Common Room and young people from mental health support group Hearts & Minds.
We spoke to professionals and looked at academic research. Then we drew up a list of strategies young people use (you can see the process in this self-care infographic). We also published a report following a consultation with young people and their families online. We're sharing these strategies with you to help you to manage your wellbeing. It’s up to you to decide what helps. If it works, keep doing it. If it doesn’t, stop and try something else.
These activities are not a substitute for seeing a mental health professional. Sometimes we need outside help and advice. Getting help is good. No-one should feel bad about it. That’s what this site is about. These strategies were identified by young people aged 11-25 though some strategies might not be appropriate for all ages without support or guidance of a trusted adult.
Get in touch
You can help us build an evidence-base for these activities by letting us know what works by emailing us. This will help us decide which ones to research further. We've also created a booklet to help you create your own self-care plan as part of our and another booklet with advice for young parents and carers on looking after their wellbeing.
Self-care techniques to try
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RelaxationRelaxation techniques
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Healthy living and physical healthMindfulness
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Hobbies and activitiesPhotography
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RelaxationColour therapy
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Talking learningRevision
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Hobbies and activitiesHope box/Happy box
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Hobbies and activitiesListening to music
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Healthy living and physical healthCrying
- Social relationships
Faith and religion
Not everyone has religious beliefs but if you do, you might find that turning to your faith feels helpful when you are struggling. One young person told us that they talk openly to their...
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Healthy living and physical healthLight therapy
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RelaxationAromatherapy and fragrance
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Hobbies and activitiesDrawing or painting
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Hobbies and activitiesBoard Games
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Healthy living and physical healthWarm bath
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Healthy living and physical healthPilates
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Social relationshipsActivism
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Social relationshipsSpending time with supportive people
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Healthy living and physical healthMeditation
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Hobbies and activitiesCreative writing
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Hobbies and activitiesWriting things down
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Hobbies and activitiesGaming
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Healthy living and physical healthEating a balanced diet
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Hobbies and activitiesDrama
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Hobbies and activitiesYouth Groups
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Healthy living and physical healthHomeopathy preparations
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Hobbies and activitiesListening to podcasts
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Healthy living and physical healthSpiritual/energy healing
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Hobbies and activitiesGoing on day trips or holiday
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Hobbies and activitiesWatching YouTube, TV or Films
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Hobbies and activitiesProblem solving
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Healthy living and physical healthOver the counter medications
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Healthy living and physical healthDistraction techniques
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Healthy living and physical healthListening to your body
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Hobbies and activitiesLearning a language
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Talking learningPsychoeducation
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Talking learningSelf-talk
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Talking learningText message support
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Social relationshipsSpending time with friends
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RelaxationSilence
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Hobbies and activitiesVolunteering & taking care of others
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Hobbies and activitiesBooks & Reading
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Thinking and attitudesOrganise your day
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Healthy living and physical healthBaking & cooking
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Healthy living and physical healthLaughter / humour
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Thinking and attitudesThinking about things
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Thinking and attitudesGoal-setting
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Social relationshipsFace-to-face informal support
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Hobbies and activitiesSpending time with animals / pets
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Thinking and attitudesDeveloping a balanced sense of self
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Healthy living and physical healthWater therapy
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Hobbies and activitiesCrafting
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Talking learningNoticing your triggers
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Healthy living and physical healthEcotherapy
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Healthy living and physical healthHerbal/plant-based remedies
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Social relationshipsGetting a job
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Healthy living and physical healthTai Chi & Qigong
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Healthy living and physical healthBeing outside
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Thinking and attitudesAcceptance
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Healthy living and physical healthMassage
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Healthy living and physical healthSetting boundaries
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Healthy living and physical healthSleep
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Healthy living and physical healthReducing consumption of stimulants and other drugs
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Thinking and attitudesPositive thinking
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Hobbies and activitiesMaking music
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TechnologyVirtual reality therapy courses
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Hobbies and activitiesPlaying
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Thinking and attitudesChallenge negative feelings
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Healthy living and physical healthSpending time in nature
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Social relationshipsOnline chat or peer group support
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Thinking and attitudesRewards
- Relaxation
ASMR
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Talking learningConfronting your fears
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Hobbies and activitiesCoding
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RelaxationTime away from technology
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Hobbies and activitiesShopping
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Hobbies and activitiesGoing to the cinema
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RelaxationAlone time
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Healthy living and physical healthPhysical exercise
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Healthy living and physical healthDance
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Thinking and attitudesUnderstanding negative thoughts and feelings
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Healthy living and physical healthChinese herbal medicine
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Healthy living and physical healthPersonal care & hygiene
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Talking learningUnsupported online, computer or app-based CBT
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Healthy living and physical healthWalking
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Healthy living and physical healthYoga
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Healthy living and physical healthLetting off steam
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Talking learningEmail support
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Social relationshipsTelephone support
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RelaxationDaydreaming & Visualisation
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Healthy living and physical healthSport
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Healthy living and physical healthLittle actions to release tension